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Skating Uphill : Girls in Hockey (May 23rd, 2025)

Being a girl in hockey isn’t just about the game. It’s fighting stereotypes, dealing with sexism, and navigating a sport that hasn’t always made space for us. From being called as ‘puck bunnies’ to watching major scandals unfold, being a female fan, player, or coach means constantly proving you belong. In this post, I want to break down some of the challenges girls in hockey face including the backlash against pioneers like Jessica Campbell, and disturbing cases from Hockey Canada and the NHL. Let’s talk about what’s been going on for girls in hockey.

Scandals have been around for years in hockey culture, but that doesn’t mean it hurts any less when you find out that one of your favourite players has been accused of sexual assault. When I first got into hockey, I just picked a favourite player and didn’t really do a deep dive into the history of the sport and allegations surrounding certain players. Unfortunately, I chose Carter Hart. I found out about the 2018 Hockey Canada situation back in January of 2024 when he was granted an indefinite leave of absence. Without knowing what happened, I checked the comments of the Instagram post and see everyone telling him to “get a good lawyer”. After some digging, I found out that Hart along with some other current NHL players were accused of assaulting a girl in 2018. This stung. I don’t know about anyone else, but when I get into something I tend to get really into it, and the Flyers and Carter Hart were something I was really fixated on. I sort of felt betrayed in a weird way, which is odd because I didn’t know him in any way at all, but the feeling that someone you looked up to could possibly do something like that is a feeling I can’t describe. And the worst part? This isn’t the first time accusations or scandals like this have come out – sexist remarks in the OHL, the 2021 Blackhawks SA case and now the Artemi Panarin situation, it just keeps happening.

On a lighter note, Jessica Campbell was recently appointed assistant coach for the Seattle Kraken. When I heard this news, I was thrilled. I know Seattle is one of the more progressive teams in the league, but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t paving the way for young girls in hockey. This opens so many doors for jobs in the league, and it feels good. However, the backlash from Campbell's debut was mixed. In her first game as acting assistant coach, when she was shown on the jumbotron there were cheers from the arena – so Seattle seems to be happy. But it seems a lot of other people weren’t. Social media has shown me that not everyone is as happy as me that Campbell is in the NHL – with people saying that the players are going to sleep with her and that it’s a “disaster waiting to happen”. And while this isn’t ideal to hear, it doesn’t bother me as much as some of the other stuff because at the end of the day, she’s in the NHL.

I’m not just here to complain. There has been substantial progress within the hockey community, including the Toronto Maple Leaf’s partnership with White Ribbon (A campaign to end violence against girls and women). This came about in 2022 and encourages viewers and players to be “Men of Quality”, meaning modelling healthy relationships, speaking out against all forms of bigotry and supporting women in general. I think this was a wonderful thing and is a step towards inclusion and respect in hockey. Change is constantly happening, whether we like it or not. Personally, I think the change in the hockey world is a good thing. While there’s still a long way to go, I truly believe the NHL and other leagues alike are making things better for their fans.

My story as a female hockey fan (May 16th, 2025)

Hi. My name is Bea and my favourite NHL team is the New Jersey Devils. The only weird thing about that sentence is that I live in Cornwall, which is in the southwest of England.. and that’s quite far from New Jersey.

Honestly, I don’t really know what the appeal was. I’ve never been into watching fights, my nearest ice rink is over 130 miles away and it’s not like there’s anyone I can talk to about it. But alas, here we are. What I do know is that ice hockey is one hell of a sport, and I love it.

You’re probably wondering what the HELL happened for me to get such a niche interest, and my honest answer is TikTok. And I can TELL what you’re thinking – this girl’s just another puck bunny who doesn’t care about the sport, but you’re wrong. In fact, if you’re thinking that about me, you’re wrong about a lot of girls who watch hockey. My very first introduction to hockey was the bow celly that Luke Hughes did after scoring against the Philadelphia Flyers…which a bit ironic because the Flyers then went on to be the team I supported for a bit. And by a bit, I mean a full year.

My favourite player was Carter Hart. Bad choice, I know – but let me finish. Truth be told, I had no idea why the hell I chose Hart to be my fav. The bow celly that I thought was so awesome was literally let in by him. But anyway, that was that for a while. Until January 23rd, 2024. I’d been watching hockey for about a year now, but I never delved into the history surrounding the sport and unfortunately had never heard of the 2018 allegations until that day. I remember looking on Instagram and seeing the Flyers posting that he was taking indefinite leave. Confused, I check the comments – all of them are saying he should get a good lawyer. I leave even more confused. And after a long dive on google I end up feeling sick to my stomach. Not only was my favourite player in this awesome new sport an alleged gang rapist, but I willingly picked him to be my favourite. I felt like an idiot, and weirdly, I felt betrayed. I think that’s just the parasocial relationship in me, but I was genuinely so upset. But mainly, I was angry – so I took a step back from the flyers and switched to my 2nd favourite team at the time – the NJD. But it made me realise, this sport – both its fans and players – has a severe lack in respect for women. That was the day I realised that there was only a very small space in this community for me.

But while the space for people like me is small, that doesn’t mean it isn’t there. Hockeytok and hockeytwt have been very comforting for me. That sounds weird, and maybe comforting isn’t the right word, but I’m going to ask you to let me finish again. Having those little numbers in your display name, having your profile picture as your favourite player, and being able to laugh at memes made by people in a similar position to you? That’s what makes me feel at home in this sport – not any of the other stuff. And while I do feel a bit more comfortable in this fan base, being a UK fan is pretty rough. I can only ever watch some of the games, because they’re always on at crazy times like 1 in the morning or something. That has an affect on how included you feel too, by missing out on the big wins and losses you also miss out on the atmosphere and the culture. Buying merch is also a task – shipping is never any less than £20 and you only ever see NFL merch in those American clothing stores you see in the shopping centres. But hey-ho, it’s whatever. I think that sports fandoms can be very daunting – especially when you’re not exactly the target demographic, but after a while you sort of get more comfortable. And just for the record – id like to say that I think my skills at picking players to support has improved – im now officially the number one nico hischier fan. Anyway, thank you for reading my short little introduction, and I hope you stick around for some more hockey talk later.

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